How is my baby in the nursery had a good or bad (2010-05-19 21:39:27)
Reprinted Tags: Kindergarten Baby treatment Determine the way Parenting Category: Parenting: Life events a child abuse video in kindergarten for many parents scared: my children are in kindergarten in the end, what kind of treatment? Some nurseries will now provide full surveillance video, parents can view the video. But neighbors said listen, this may not be safe kindergarten, the teacher will bring the child can not see where the video lessons. Therefore, the lives of children in kindergarten in the end is really a mystery, and kindergartens were also sufficient reason to prohibit parents to visit: transmission problems, safety issues, child emotional problems. How is my baby in the end had it really is good in the nursery?
as a child admitted to kindergarten early to put hard-hearted mother, I must declare that I am not a foolhardy mother. I like that in the Lu Zhishen Water Margin, crude and refined. In fact, seedling seedlings to the nursery, I was her behavior observation of a wide range of speculation, it assured her stay, in that nursery. Good experience to share the purpose of this blog, the following information dedicated to the grateful mom:
watchpoints: emotions
emotional reaction of children is the most direct treatment of the signal, the new park will be crying baby a few days, this is normal. But a couple weeks later, the baby's crying is a subtle change. Some babies are crying, spoiled type, into the park when the tears refused to go, time to go home depends not go in the kindergarten. This baby is no problem, just like crying Bale. Crying for attention there are several conditions:
1. Strong to resist. For example, the baby started good, went to a local suddenly his face changed, and do not want to go. The kind of attachment to parents in general, just not a big problem. To distinguish the baby would not go to kindergarten, in the end is to resist or attachment.
2. Admission triggered a sudden crying. A baby has been very willing to kindergarten, and suddenly one day started strong resistance, it means a certain bit why. Resistance when the new park may be just emotional resistance to a new life baby, and slowly will be better, but the way we should draw attention to the place.
3. Grievance. Occasionally, parents may wish to pick up the baby a little earlier or find an excuse to go to the middle of a kindergarten, such as sending things ahead, then halfway home Yeah, take the opportunity to play in the class to see whether your baby happy. Some babies have been playing well, that is, Mom and Dad to pick began to cry. This is like a baby, never mind. However, if a child in kindergarten usually listless, just looking forward to hurry home, then at least the kindergarten of life did not make a child feel happy.
I always feel that beating children is reflected in the mood to a certain extent, but the parents do not know whether he noticed the distress signal. Children had been wronged may not know, but will show it. There must be reasons for abnormal mood, perhaps a sign of illness, perhaps a little small, may be true by a bully. Parents must pay attention, attention, and then attention.
observation point II: expression
children the kindergarten and the teacher's expression should be carefully observed to see the child face the teacher when the eyes are calm or dodge is very important. Teacher from the child's eyes to see, can feel the attitude of the teacher usually the children. Such as video in the beating of children, I would like him in the eyes of the teacher, there is absolutely no trust and intimacy, only a fear and dodge. Seedling seedlings in the nursery I am assured the situation, a great look at one aspect of the teacher's eyes that she is, and even sometimes the teacher made little spoiled temper.
Maybe some parents will say, may the child suffered a bully on the forgotten, was very much teacher. You can rest assured that, as long as the kids still like the teacher, it means no irritation. The level of some teachers is limited, the style may be a bit simple and crude, but not necessarily a bad heart. Children are the most able to tell who is good and who's bad. Parents also have to play their own child, as long as not malicious, they do not sweetness and light all the time Well the teacher asked.
observation point three: food intake
diet in kindergarten children, the amount of food from home to see it. Several of us parents have a baby to eat a good experience, the children just go to kindergarten, go home and very, very hungry. But ask the teacher, said food is not bad. Military false teachers say it, it seems unlikely, because the teacher is clearly with the other parents say But slowly, the problems gone. I understand that admission for the first time children tight, physical exertion, has become particularly eat, and slowly adapted just fine. However, especially if long-term home to eat more, and that parents should pay attention, in the end the baby did not eat the rice cooks, or the baby feel unpleasant to eat in kindergarten.
reasonable conditions, the last child in kindergarten is almost a meal and eat at home, weekends when hungry, appetite is very uniform.
observation point four: go to the toilet
Watch your baby is too important to go to the toilet, if the baby bowel movement every day to solve problems in kindergarten, although his mother may not have the opportunity to observe the child's stool description of the problem in the kindergarten is very relaxed. If your baby stool at home, parents must be carefully observed to see if the stool is normal, because it directly reflects the situation of the baby's diet and digestion. The observation of urine is also very important, I sometimes used to pick the middle of the vine seedlings came back and found her home within half an hour after the toilet was. This means less water in the kindergarten did not, and I therefore rest assured that some of it.
observed by going to the toilet, drink diet in kindergarten children can understand pretty close.
observation point five: sleep
baby sleep is a regular day, the shift. In general, the kindergarten physical activity, will not cause a sudden increase in the child sleep. Seedling nursery seedling just on time, actually have to sleep the morning, return to the situation one year old. But a few days later, she began to sleep with the kids at noon with a. This shows that she adapted and kindergartens would not let her life be less stressful. Seedling seedlings slowly even in kindergarten can do a lot of things that can not be done at home. For example: take a nap before she was in kindergarten with children line up with the toilet, has been completely without a diaper. But at home does not work, unless the urine is absolutely not the toilet.
children attending a day care should soon be able to develop a good rule, if the law just can not develop, parents should pay attention to: what did your child can not integrate into nursery life.
observation point six: progress
do not know why, many parents prefer to put their children at home, so that a single aunt looked at, is not willing to send their children to kindergarten. Seems to nursery is a horrible place. But I think the nursery is really quite good, after the progress of seedling nursery seedling to a huge and pleasant personality more. Used to be a fragile package, and now she was brave neighbors Doukua more. Moreover, seedling nursery seedling brought back information from the very rich, singing Gesanchaiwu new songs, say a few interesting words, smoke a few in English. When the actions follow the music to dance too much, play equipment can also become a major point of the pattern. In short, great changes in seedling seedlings just makes me ashamed, kindergarten in the end is designed to see the child, many tricks that can really let me try ah.
and patterns of life, like children's songs emerge accidentally friends back home English friends, all that integrated into the kindergarten. Parents not only will these things as learning problems, if any progress is not long, then there must be other reasons.
observation point seven: description
Sometimes a child is often described chaotic state, the coexistence of virtual and real problems, so many parents feel that from what children are asking if there is not out. In fact, as long as the intentions of observation, or to get a lot of information. If a teacher to leave a very bad influence, the children of the more common reaction is reluctant to talk about, or change the subject. Mom can ask: baby, there are several in your class teacher is? Which is your favorite teacher is? Which teacher is the long hair you? ... ... And so whatever the problem, if every teacher is often described with reference to the child pleasure, regardless of the content is right or wrong, at least that teacher-student relationship that is no problem. If the child is always to avoid a teacher, then there is a problem.
important thing is not to say the details of the child, but kids talk about this expression and attitude. Details will be chaos, will remember it correctly, but he must be accurate.
observation point eight: teacher
addition to observe the child outside the teacher should carefully observed. And teachers talk about her problems, also pay attention to the teacher's attitude. Especially when children have abnormal problems later - if the child has sustained a marked abnormal behavior, but blindly avoiding the teacher said: very good ah, ah nothing. It is estimated that there really is a problem. If the teacher usually can provide more accurate information, then the teacher's credibility will be higher. Also, parents can regularly communicate with the teacher simply like to send a child asked the teacher to teach children well, this time by the way the teacher can Such problems do not casually cause any burden to the teacher, but also played a role in the exchange. Always ask if the teacher took forever, not only people's time wasted, but also to other parents feel unfair, in fact, the information may not reflect the really more.
way of communicating with almost all people, should pay attention to skills, and screening for the answer from the other useful information.
general, as long as teachers are not particularly bad experience, even with the contradictions, but also communication solution. In fact, any place, absolutely fair did not exist. Parents see their children are very cute, but it does not mean that others also have an obligation not think so. Home as long as two or more children, the parents are not difficult to be absolutely eccentric, not to mention non-relative, so do kindergarten teachers. If the child is a teacher there in the unfair treatment, may be the teacher's question. However, if the unfair treatment by multiple teachers, parents should also look for their own reasons. For instance, your child is not there some kind of cute, in your opinion, but the habit will cause trouble to others. For instance, some children do not eat well throw around, angry people who like to play around, take a cup full of water and so on. At home, these seem like small problems, but in the nursery so that other children might learn to follow, which cause trouble to the teacher. Help your child get rid of bad habits, is to improve his best way to encounter in kindergarten. Many parents will say this time: the teacher should have patience, there are ways! But do not forget, you are a birth parent, only education, such a child, not to give the child to develop good habits. Are asking teachers to do better than you, this realistic?
any place, feel sick malicious minority kindergarten teacher is, after all, most of the teachers and, like us, ordinary people only. In the ordinary people there, what kind of experiences children are largely dependent on the child's behavior. And this habit, it is the parents are the children.
Reprinted Tags: Kindergarten Baby treatment Determine the way Parenting Category: Parenting: Life events a child abuse video in kindergarten for many parents scared: my children are in kindergarten in the end, what kind of treatment? Some nurseries will now provide full surveillance video, parents can view the video. But neighbors said listen, this may not be safe kindergarten, the teacher will bring the child can not see where the video lessons. Therefore, the lives of children in kindergarten in the end is really a mystery, and kindergartens were also sufficient reason to prohibit parents to visit: transmission problems, safety issues, child emotional problems. How is my baby in the end had it really is good in the nursery?
as a child admitted to kindergarten early to put hard-hearted mother, I must declare that I am not a foolhardy mother. I like that in the Lu Zhishen Water Margin, crude and refined. In fact, seedling seedlings to the nursery, I was her behavior observation of a wide range of speculation, it assured her stay, in that nursery. Good experience to share the purpose of this blog, the following information dedicated to the grateful mom:
watchpoints: emotions
emotional reaction of children is the most direct treatment of the signal, the new park will be crying baby a few days, this is normal. But a couple weeks later, the baby's crying is a subtle change. Some babies are crying, spoiled type, into the park when the tears refused to go, time to go home depends not go in the kindergarten. This baby is no problem, just like crying Bale. Crying for attention there are several conditions:
1. Strong to resist. For example, the baby started good, went to a local suddenly his face changed, and do not want to go. The kind of attachment to parents in general, just not a big problem. To distinguish the baby would not go to kindergarten, in the end is to resist or attachment.
2. Admission triggered a sudden crying. A baby has been very willing to kindergarten, and suddenly one day started strong resistance, it means a certain bit why. Resistance when the new park may be just emotional resistance to a new life baby, and slowly will be better, but the way we should draw attention to the place.
3. Grievance. Occasionally, parents may wish to pick up the baby a little earlier or find an excuse to go to the middle of a kindergarten, such as sending things ahead, then halfway home Yeah, take the opportunity to play in the class to see whether your baby happy. Some babies have been playing well, that is, Mom and Dad to pick began to cry. This is like a baby, never mind. However, if a child in kindergarten usually listless, just looking forward to hurry home, then at least the kindergarten of life did not make a child feel happy.
I always feel that beating children is reflected in the mood to a certain extent, but the parents do not know whether he noticed the distress signal. Children had been wronged may not know, but will show it. There must be reasons for abnormal mood, perhaps a sign of illness, perhaps a little small, may be true by a bully. Parents must pay attention, attention, and then attention.
observation point II: expression
children the kindergarten and the teacher's expression should be carefully observed to see the child face the teacher when the eyes are calm or dodge is very important. Teacher from the child's eyes to see, can feel the attitude of the teacher usually the children. Such as video in the beating of children, I would like him in the eyes of the teacher, there is absolutely no trust and intimacy, only a fear and dodge. Seedling seedlings in the nursery I am assured the situation, a great look at one aspect of the teacher's eyes that she is, and even sometimes the teacher made little spoiled temper.
Maybe some parents will say, may the child suffered a bully on the forgotten, was very much teacher. You can rest assured that, as long as the kids still like the teacher, it means no irritation. The level of some teachers is limited, the style may be a bit simple and crude, but not necessarily a bad heart. Children are the most able to tell who is good and who's bad. Parents also have to play their own child, as long as not malicious, they do not sweetness and light all the time Well the teacher asked.
observation point three: food intake
diet in kindergarten children, the amount of food from home to see it. Several of us parents have a baby to eat a good experience, the children just go to kindergarten, go home and very, very hungry. But ask the teacher, said food is not bad. Military false teachers say it, it seems unlikely, because the teacher is clearly with the other parents say But slowly, the problems gone. I understand that admission for the first time children tight, physical exertion, has become particularly eat, and slowly adapted just fine. However, especially if long-term home to eat more, and that parents should pay attention, in the end the baby did not eat the rice cooks, or the baby feel unpleasant to eat in kindergarten.
reasonable conditions, the last child in kindergarten is almost a meal and eat at home, weekends when hungry, appetite is very uniform.
observation point four: go to the toilet
Watch your baby is too important to go to the toilet, if the baby bowel movement every day to solve problems in kindergarten, although his mother may not have the opportunity to observe the child's stool description of the problem in the kindergarten is very relaxed. If your baby stool at home, parents must be carefully observed to see if the stool is normal, because it directly reflects the situation of the baby's diet and digestion. The observation of urine is also very important, I sometimes used to pick the middle of the vine seedlings came back and found her home within half an hour after the toilet was. This means less water in the kindergarten did not, and I therefore rest assured that some of it.
observed by going to the toilet, drink diet in kindergarten children can understand pretty close.
observation point five: sleep
baby sleep is a regular day, the shift. In general, the kindergarten physical activity, will not cause a sudden increase in the child sleep. Seedling nursery seedling just on time, actually have to sleep the morning, return to the situation one year old. But a few days later, she began to sleep with the kids at noon with a. This shows that she adapted and kindergartens would not let her life be less stressful. Seedling seedlings slowly even in kindergarten can do a lot of things that can not be done at home. For example: take a nap before she was in kindergarten with children line up with the toilet, has been completely without a diaper. But at home does not work, unless the urine is absolutely not the toilet.
children attending a day care should soon be able to develop a good rule, if the law just can not develop, parents should pay attention to: what did your child can not integrate into nursery life.
observation point six: progress
do not know why, many parents prefer to put their children at home, so that a single aunt looked at, is not willing to send their children to kindergarten. Seems to nursery is a horrible place. But I think the nursery is really quite good, after the progress of seedling nursery seedling to a huge and pleasant personality more. Used to be a fragile package, and now she was brave neighbors Doukua more. Moreover, seedling nursery seedling brought back information from the very rich, singing Gesanchaiwu new songs, say a few interesting words, smoke a few in English. When the actions follow the music to dance too much, play equipment can also become a major point of the pattern. In short, great changes in seedling seedlings just makes me ashamed, kindergarten in the end is designed to see the child, many tricks that can really let me try ah.
and patterns of life, like children's songs emerge accidentally friends back home English friends, all that integrated into the kindergarten. Parents not only will these things as learning problems, if any progress is not long, then there must be other reasons.
observation point seven: description
Sometimes a child is often described chaotic state, the coexistence of virtual and real problems, so many parents feel that from what children are asking if there is not out. In fact, as long as the intentions of observation, or to get a lot of information. If a teacher to leave a very bad influence, the children of the more common reaction is reluctant to talk about, or change the subject. Mom can ask: baby, there are several in your class teacher is? Which is your favorite teacher is? Which teacher is the long hair you? ... ... And so whatever the problem, if every teacher is often described with reference to the child pleasure, regardless of the content is right or wrong, at least that teacher-student relationship that is no problem. If the child is always to avoid a teacher, then there is a problem.
important thing is not to say the details of the child, but kids talk about this expression and attitude. Details will be chaos, will remember it correctly, but he must be accurate.
observation point eight: teacher
addition to observe the child outside the teacher should carefully observed. And teachers talk about her problems, also pay attention to the teacher's attitude. Especially when children have abnormal problems later - if the child has sustained a marked abnormal behavior, but blindly avoiding the teacher said: very good ah, ah nothing. It is estimated that there really is a problem. If the teacher usually can provide more accurate information, then the teacher's credibility will be higher. Also, parents can regularly communicate with the teacher simply like to send a child asked the teacher to teach children well, this time by the way the teacher can Such problems do not casually cause any burden to the teacher, but also played a role in the exchange. Always ask if the teacher took forever, not only people's time wasted, but also to other parents feel unfair, in fact, the information may not reflect the really more.
way of communicating with almost all people, should pay attention to skills, and screening for the answer from the other useful information.
general, as long as teachers are not particularly bad experience, even with the contradictions, but also communication solution. In fact, any place, absolutely fair did not exist. Parents see their children are very cute, but it does not mean that others also have an obligation not think so. Home as long as two or more children, the parents are not difficult to be absolutely eccentric, not to mention non-relative, so do kindergarten teachers. If the child is a teacher there in the unfair treatment, may be the teacher's question. However, if the unfair treatment by multiple teachers, parents should also look for their own reasons. For instance, your child is not there some kind of cute, in your opinion, but the habit will cause trouble to others. For instance, some children do not eat well throw around, angry people who like to play around, take a cup full of water and so on. At home, these seem like small problems, but in the nursery so that other children might learn to follow, which cause trouble to the teacher. Help your child get rid of bad habits, is to improve his best way to encounter in kindergarten. Many parents will say this time: the teacher should have patience, there are ways! But do not forget, you are a birth parent, only education, such a child, not to give the child to develop good habits. Are asking teachers to do better than you, this realistic?
any place, feel sick malicious minority kindergarten teacher is, after all, most of the teachers and, like us, ordinary people only. In the ordinary people there, what kind of experiences children are largely dependent on the child's behavior. And this habit, it is the parents are the children.
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